Top 7 things I learned in my first semester of college.
 

1. When you’re 18; you’re (most likely) a total moron, for the most part incapable of handling yourself without adult supervision.
2. Being an RA in Parker Hall is the easiest job on campus.
3. Don’t spend all your money on food. You never know where your next cent is coming from.
4. The phrase “this is due on” can mean many different things.
5. Tests are hard.
6. Papers are easy.
7. Don’t spend all your time watching TV, or you’ll gain a lot of weight.

I have neglected to write for awhile.

I have a lot to say. I can’t say it. It isn’t because I cannot articulate, or because it doesn’t need to be said. I just can’t say it. I have the proverbial “mindload” of thought patterns. Despite the many angles of thought, they all center around a few singular themes and are very intimate and close to my heart.

In other news I’m beginning to get moved in and settled at Lindenwood. I’m trying to make the best of that AND working overnights at the hotel. I’m NOT convinced this job will work with school. At the present, however, it’s paying the school bill; and I have no other option.

Entering into a life I’ve never really embraced before, (that being an academic one) I’m quite nervous and apprehensive. I don’t really know what to expect, or how to go about “success” as it’s defined by the setting at hand. Frankly, I’m very scared.

I’m waiting
I’m waiting on You, Lord
And I am hopeful
I’m waiting on You, Lord
Though it is painful
But patiently, I will wait
 

I will move ahead, bold and confident
Takeing every step in obedience
While I’m waiting
I will serve You
While I’m waiting
I will worship
While I’m waiting
I will not faint
I’ll be running the race
Even while I wait
 

I’m waiting
I’m waiting on You, Lord
And I am peaceful
I’m waiting on You, Lord
Though it’s not easy
But faithfully, I will wait
Yes, I will wait
I will serve You while I’m waiting
I will worship while I’m waiting
I will serve You while I’m waiting
I will worship while I’m waiting
I will serve you while I’m waiting
I will worship while I’m waiting on You, Lord
–
“While I’m Waiting” by John Waller
via stlyrics.com

I know. I’m turning into a lyrics blog. Those that personally know me know what I’m going through. Perhaps someday I’ll publicly write about it, perhaps not. But this song is EXACTLY what my heart needs to be at this moment in time. Pray for me in this. Once mental peace returns, I’ll post again.

In our lives sometimes, it’s hard to define what we’re really striving for other than our human achievements. School, work, promotions, and relationships are really all human elements to life. Certainly God does bless us with these, and our abilities with which we achieve such goals and ambitions. He no doubt uses these in our lives and others to achieve His purpose on earth; His pure glorification.

However, I’ve been thinking about this lately; why would God care about the things we care about? If one were to list his highest priorities in life, and pit them against God’s priorities for the universe, I wonder how often we’d line up? Goals and priorities can surely be God given, and inspired of Him to reach his purpose for our lives. But what good is a job, unless we work as unto Him? What good is a place to live unless we’re living for Him? What good is a relationship unless we love with the true love of the Father? Why would God allow these things?

In His word, God tells us “delight yourself in the Lord, and he will give you the desires of your heart”. (Psalm 37:4) So it can no doubt be assumed that some of our human desires it falls within God’s plan to satisfy within us. His desire not only revolves around His ultimate glorification, but it also involves granting our desires. But only when we “…delight yourself in the Lord…” will he do this.

Dictionary.com’s definition of “delight” as a verb:

–verb (used with object)
3.to give great pleasure, satisfaction, or enjoyment to; please highly: The show delighted everyone.
–verb (used without object)
4.to have great pleasure; take pleasure (fol. by in or an infinitive): She delights in going for long walks in the country.
from dictionary.com

So there’s really two aspects to this idea of “…delight yourself in the Lord…”. The first one involves “giving pleasure, satisfaction, or enjoyment to”; or to “please highly”. God has certainly created us to give Glory to Him or rather to “please” Him. But the second definition applies more perhaps. As the verse says “…delight yourself in the Lord…”. We can draw that this means to be delighted IN Him. Which, by definition means to “have great pleasure” or “take pleasure”. How can we take pleasure in our Lord? What does this mean?

Going back to the first paragraph about our human desires, it would seem that while God does intend to grant them for His glory, our focus need not be on such, but on delighting ourselves in Him. As the scripture says in Mathew 6; “31 Therefore do not be anxious, saying, ‘What shall we eat?’ or ‘What shall we drink?’ or ‘What shall we wear?’ 32 For the Gentiles seek after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them all. 33 But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you”. So while we do have desires, our “heavenly Father knows that you need them all” but in spite of that knowledge, we should “seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you”. So when we seek GOD and DELIGHT in Him, only then will our desires be added to us.

In conclusion then, there is no point to worrying over our human needs, or our desires. God knows them, and intends to grant them as we seek Him. What a relief this is. So why is this article titled “onward”? I believe this truth explained here to be essential to serving God. We cannot move “onward” while being concerned with our needs and desires. God knows this. He rather plans to bless along the way as we seek first HIS Kingdom. I tend to find myself more concerned with my desires as opposed to delighting myself in Him, which is the only way that God will be able to grant anything I want. My purpose is to serve Him; until the end of time, amen!

Thanks for listening,
Addison

I’ve been thinking a lot lately about the concept of standing. Dictionary.com defines “stand” in a few ways. For this article, I chose to reference the 4th, 5th, and 6th definitions.

4. to stop or remain motionless or steady on the feet.
5. to take a position or place as indicated: to stand aside.
6. to remain firm or steadfast, as in a cause.

from dictionary.com

Interesting. Take a look at the song “Stand” by Rascal Flats.

Cause when push comes to shove
You taste what you’re made of
You might bend, till you break
Cause its all you can take
On your knees you look up
Decide you’ve had enough
You get mad you get strong
Wipe your hands shake it off
Then you Stand, Then you stand

from azlyrics.com

That’s a good song. I enjoy it a lot. It’s interesting to note the implication that life’s problems are solved by standing. This might be true, and many of our difficulties perhaps stem from a lack of backbone. But on our own human power, “standing” will achieve nothing. Standing will be a temporary fix. A momentary climb up the mountain; only to slide back down again when “standing” becomes old and tiresome. I find that standing of my own willpower, which is very strong, leads to success. But such success is temporary. I ALWAYS fall back into the same behaviors, habits, and patterns. The process is mentally stressful. The “stand” is strove for once again. The the sweet taste of success fills my mental state. My step is lighter, my mood uplifted; and “victory” is mine. But then I fall once again. It usually takes longer. Each time I “stand” my victory is a bit longer lasting. I grow more “guts” each time. But I don’t want to grow guts. I want to be truly, lastingly FREE. Whatever sin or behavior ensnares me I want taken for good, never to return again. I want to not only be free consciously, but I no longer want the “fear” of sliding back to beset me. Where can this be found?

A few months ago at church I was introduced to the song “The Stand”. I’m not sure who wrote it, but Hillsong United does a decent rendition of it that you can listen to in “my music” at the top of the sidebar to the right. The main chorus is quoted below.

So I’ll stand
With arms high and heart abandoned
In awe of the One who gave it all

So I’ll stand
My soul Lord to You surrendered
All I am is Yours

from letssingit.com

This is what I long for. We as Christians and as humans cannot achieve anything on our own. We in ourselves are nothing but simple masses of molecules strung together by basic reproduction, bouncing off one another in a sin-filled world. Only when we look upward and STAND with hearts abandoned, and our souls surrendered do we move forward.

“Standing” doesn’t come from “guts”, and it isn’t “bold”. It comes from a soul surrendered to the Almighty King, and a recognition that we cannot “stand” against anything, or for anything without Him.

In my next post, I’ll hopefully dive into the Bible, and define this “soul surrendered” some. I hope. Until then, give that song a listen. Uh, the Hillsong one; not the Rascal Flats one.

I hope you have a good day,
Addison

I have completely migrated my old blog to this new one. All the entries have been moved. I had trouble deciding whether or not to move them. My old entries can be divided into about 3 categories. First, there’s those in the not to distant past where I was learning so much about myself. Deep, vague, and moving. These offer a glimpse into the days to come. And by “days to come” I mean the last year or so. I love these. I love re-reading them and seeing where I’ve been, and what I began to learn.

A few of these include:
The Mirror
The Man I Once Was Part 1 and Part 2
moving
I Am This Man
and finally; untitled

 
Secondly, there’s the meaningless entries. And third, there are the entries that I cannot stand. I read them today and I despise who I used to be. My arrogance, and my “know it all” attitude must have made for disgusting reading. I doubt anyone currently “follows” this site, but if they do; I apologize. In the future, as God shapes who I become, I assure you we’ll see less arrogance.

 
I have been through so much during my dry spell of an online existence. I have fought apathy, depression, and I have wrestled with what I truly believe. I have found true love, in the Father’s hands. I struggled with whether or not to even continue blogging. I feel like nothing I have to say is of any value. I feel like I’ve made so many mistakes and have a host of shortcomings. I am determined to start afresh, and learn from what I believe has been taught over that last few years. I am enrolled to start school at Lindenwood University this fall; and I couldn’t be looking forward to it more.

 
All in all, if you’re still reading, and will continue to read; I thank you for your readership. If not, thanks for dropping by.

 
Cheers,
Addison

do you ever feel sometimes like you’re locked on an island. and you’ve a plane to escape. said plane which; if gained, would be what you’ve dreamed of for years. merely the change in your despicable state is welcome. this plane could possibly carry you to wonderful heights. a wonderful new life is attainable by this apparatus. however, it has a flaw. one that could cause the plane to come crashing and burning down, carrying you and it into the sea. the plane, on one hand, considering what it can potentially offer; is a blessing. while on the the other hand, it’s a horrible curse. if the plane didn’t exist, your situation would seem better, in that nothing better is attainable. in such a state, one finds a comfort in where they are, however horrible. but since the plane exists, even in its flawed state, it haunts you. you are terrified of making this move towards what could be undoubtedly better, and personally freeing. the plane keeps you from moving. the choice to move is halted by the terrifying knowledge that the effort could crash and burn.
damn the plane.

On Tuesday, November 4th, 2008, Barack Hussein Obama was elected the 44th President of the United States. Although it pains me to say that, considering I was personally backing John McCain for the Presidency. A few days back, I outlined my reasons for backing him in a post entitled, “My Official Selection For President“. I feel exactly the same as I did when I wrote that. I don’t see Barack possessing what we need at this point in our nations history. I find his economic policies sadly very socialist. I have nothing against the fact that Barack is black. While there are people in this country that feel that a black man can/will not successfully lead this country, I am not one of them. My dislike of the outcome of this election is based entirely on his policies. I would feel the same way if a green man with the same policies had been elected in his place.
That said, I give him the fairest of chances. I don’t think he’ll be able to find half the money to do a third of the things he plans on doing. You read that right. He won’t be able to afford near the government programs he thinks he will I imagine. The country is in an economic crapstorm, so to speak. We’re trillions of dollars in debt to other nations, and we’ve no plan to pay it off. And the “plan” to fix the economy, can only be paid for in two ways. Either you stop spending, (a foreign concept to liberals) or you “create” more money. Unfortunately, our government leans toward the latter of those two, and its come to bite us in the rear.
Let’s all as a country follow along and see what “change” Mr. Obama has in store for us and how his policies effect the nation. Frankly, I’m excited to see what the next four years has to offer.

I support the McCain/Palin ticket for the ‘08 Presidential Election. Below are listed the main issues that most effect the way I vote.
1. Sanctity Of Life. A candidate in my opinion cannot be considered for office unless he/she is pro-life.
2. Economics. My main issue here is taxes. Generally speaking, conservatives want lower taxes and a smaller, less expensive government, while liberals want the opposite.
As you can see from non-partisan, fact-gathering websites such as ontheissues.org, McCain is closer to my views and opinions then the opposing candidate, Barack Hussein Obama. Therefore I have no choice but to endorse John McCain for President.
B. Hussein voted 3 times to allow live abortions. For more in this barbaric practice take a good look at this short YouTube video.

Another helpful link when researching the candidates is obamaspast.com. This man has a very scary tie with Islam, a radical religion that is against the United States and it’s principles.
For your own sake, I hope you take a look at the candidates well and make an informed decision.
Later,

Addison